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Dec 21, 2004 14:37:25 GMT -5
Post by AcaciaPhoenix on Dec 21, 2004 14:37:25 GMT -5
Lately I've noticed that since my awakening, I have not been very talkative thru IM chats. I get ppl IMing me and we do engage in lite talk, but for the most part I just don't talk....so why is it that everyone assumes that I am busy and "to let me be" or I get accused of not being sociable, when the conversation starts to move slower than usual...Geeze do I Have to ALWAYS think of something to say? Why not the other person?why do I have to always be the one to say hi first?? UGH!!!!
MAYBE I just don't have anything to say at that particular moment....ever think of that?
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Jun 30, 2005 20:48:29 GMT -5
Post by AlloriaDark on Jun 30, 2005 20:48:29 GMT -5
Um.......(poke,poke) Hi!
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Jun 30, 2005 20:57:05 GMT -5
Post by AcaciaPhoenix on Jun 30, 2005 20:57:05 GMT -5
*snaps jaw at finger then blinks* Oh it's you!! sorry about that hehehe...
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Jun 30, 2005 20:59:15 GMT -5
Post by AlloriaDark on Jun 30, 2005 20:59:15 GMT -5
My finger isn't tasty with ketchup! I swear! Please don't gnaw on me!?!
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Aug 17, 2005 1:36:35 GMT -5
Post by Joshuacaine on Aug 17, 2005 1:36:35 GMT -5
Well hun sometimes it's nice to fill the void in the silence. When people IM you they're syaing that they would rather spend part of their finite lifespan talking to you because they feel you have a valuble input and are a joy to talk to, or at the least an empathic ear to lean on. I think it's different on IM than in r/l. In real life I don't mind silence because I don't feel the need to fill a void with mindless jabber. I can still be with people I care about without having to resort to gab. On IM, however, if I message you it's because I feel I need a friend and you are the best choice out of the people on my list. Hope this helps. >;^} Joshua
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Aug 24, 2005 15:40:39 GMT -5
Post by Elix on Aug 24, 2005 15:40:39 GMT -5
Hey Acacia, I feel the same. Sometimes I just don't want to talk so I don't send out any IM's but then I get a few, and like you, once the conversation gets slow, I'm asked, "are you busy?" NO!! I just don't have aything to say right now and maybe I don't feel like saying anything right now. Which is why I didn't IM in the first place LOL!! Elix
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backlash
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Sept 9, 2005 0:30:52 GMT -5
Post by backlash on Sept 9, 2005 0:30:52 GMT -5
Well actually I've found you quite talkitive in the past and you've useally told me when your busy or not.I can say though with certainty at least when it's been me,that your anything but anti-social ;D
PEACE OUT
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