Need Suggestions

[WinterWitch]

I've two friends who are both vampires and have been each others donor from the time they got together. And they have been together for two years now. The problem is that Rich won't bleed for Marty anymore. He did when they first got together but stopped about a year later saying that he doesn't bleed well and really didn't want to feed her that way anymore. This has put the pressure on Marty cause feeding sanguinelly is the source she prefers. Where Rich is feeds from Psi energies.

They are moving soon and will be relocating in the south. And trouble started when Marty brought up that her ex-lover,who lives in the town where they will moving, is willing to become her donor. They had a wicked fight about this and Marty can't understand why Rich is so adamant that she not use her ex-lover as a donor. I have tried to tell her that it would be a bad situation all the way around but she still can't see it. I also tried to tell Rich that if he were to start feeding her sanguinelly again that she would have no need to find an additional donor.

Any one have any suggestions as to how to make these two people see whats going on before things get out of hand? I'm sort of in the middle cause they have both come to me to vent.

Sage

[Elix]

None to give hun...
He doesn't want her involved with her ex, which is understandbale, and I have the feeling that she's going to get him involved whether her new BF likes it or not... and like you yourself said, that will lead nothing to trouble.
Elix

[onyx]

Greetings Sage,
If they are meant to be, this will pass in time. There are some things that a vampyre must respect. One of those things is the withdrawal of a donor. If her BF is no longer comfortable with being a donor, and it sounds as if he has justified his reasons behind the withdrawal, then his request must be respected. She should not use an ex-boyfriend as a donor because there is always residual feelings left behind when a relationship ends, and this would only alienate her current boyfriend. My suggestion would be to find a female donor. Most men are not threatened by female donors, particularly if their girlfriend is not bisexual. If she is truly sanguine, then there is nothing sexual about feeding to begin with. Perhaps this would solve all problems and they could continue to embrace one another.

Blessings in Light and Darknes,
Lady Onyx