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Post by Mairi on Apr 17, 2005 19:46:58 GMT -5
When your looking for a vampire to donate to, what sort of things do you expect from them?
Mairi
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Post by Obscure Thoughts on Apr 29, 2005 3:23:29 GMT -5
Well, I personally don't go looking for a person to donate to, they normally go looking for me But, I'd like for the person to keep our special relationship between us, unless either one of us has a significant other. Then, that person should know what's going on, so they know that they aren't being cheated on. But, keep it quiet. Don't shout from the rooftops that Jane Doe is your donor. This next one I think vamps expect to say more than donors but: Just cause I'm feeding your one hunger (either psy or sang), it does NOT mean I'll feed your other and sleep with you. Even if you are hot as hell, and meet all of the 6-6-6 criteria. I'm cheap, not easy. ^_^ Understand my limitations. I can't always give you energy. I have a job and other responsibilities that might need that energy more. And sometimes, when you're "full", I'll have a truckload of excess that I'd think you would want, cause it's either give it to you, the earth, or bounce (literally) off the walls.
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Post by AcaciaPhoenix on May 13, 2005 12:47:44 GMT -5
I have always called myself a "surrogate" donor. I don't actively donate to anyone unless it is a friend and they are unable to rfor whatever reason reach their constant donor. I don't expect anything out of being a donor.
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Post by jadey on Jun 23, 2005 21:27:05 GMT -5
You know, just on a side note to this... most Pixies I have met do bounce all over the walls...
As for being limits, if the donor doesn't have enough energy for them, then there definetly is not enough for me, so I go elsewhere...
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Post by Joshuacaine on Apr 17, 2006 0:46:38 GMT -5
I think that OT made some good points. One major thing I look for in a donor is someone who is willing to be a friend, regardless whether you are feeding them or not. If the only time a vamp wants to talk to you is when he/she's looking for a meal, I'll usually send them elsewhere.
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Post by swampiebartender on Jul 5, 2006 21:02:12 GMT -5
i've only been a donor to one. he was a sanguine pranic psi sexual vampire,empath and a therian were/creature... it was over the phone.... i thought we had a very good type of thing going. we would talk and there was the phone sex. but i didn't apreciate him telling me i belonged to him the last time we talked and then he never contacted me again.... that just isn't fair. don't get me wrong he was a very sweet man but please keep it real. if you don't mean it then don't say it.
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Post by Obscure Thoughts on Jul 12, 2006 12:40:23 GMT -5
I tend to not like owner/ownee relationships that deal with donorism (is that a real word?). I think it could give the owner the feeling that s/he could basically do whatever they wanted with the ownee whenever they wanted, even tap them dry, and that's not cool. Now, on the otherhand, I do have an owner, but he's not a vamp, and he even lets me rebel sometimes *squee* Rebellyness is fun.
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Post by swampiebartender on Jul 12, 2006 14:23:38 GMT -5
well i didn't mind the ..."you belong to me now does that make you happy and i said yes) blah blah blah then poof nothing...... if you don't mean it then don't bother saying it's just plaine and simple.we didn't even live in the same state and i didn't expect him to just do me but ownership requires some follow up i would think.don't worry, after some sound advice i cut the cord. severed it with one fel swoop. if you want ownership then a little follow up and tender lovin care is required.
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Post by swampiebartender on Aug 10, 2006 16:08:35 GMT -5
a little update : he has finally started contacting me once in awhile.. there hasn't been any more phone sex as yet but some nice conversation, some advice here and there. he's helped me out a little and i've helped him out a little so i think basically we are friends which is nice....i don't know why he doesn't use me for his feeding anymore but he must have his reasons. i haven't asked. i figure if he wanted me to know why he woud tell me. i do feel that he does watch over me astrally. i've had at least one or two ocassions when this came to my attention. like i've said before, he is a very sweet man if he doesn't want me to be his donor anymore and just a good frien then that is fine with me too.
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Post by rosamund on Aug 14, 2006 20:41:34 GMT -5
Swampie,
I am glad to hear that this has worked out somewhat. It could be that he found your energy somehow incompatable with his own. It can happen. If he is willing to still be friends then that is a good thing for you.
Having read your posts on this and another board, you may want to consider what you really want from this and other vampiric contacts. It sounds like you have some serious thinking to do about what it is that you seek in life.
Rosa
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Post by swampiebartender on Aug 15, 2006 3:16:07 GMT -5
rosamund, thank you so much for posting here to me. your right, i wasn't going around looking for a vampire to donate to it just happened . we met on a board which had nothing to do with vampires or other/kin and when he told me he was a vampire (a real one) i wasn't repulsed, i liked the idea of him being one. i have always loved vampires although i didn't know any. i think he liked the idea that i thought that attractive. we happened to do some numeroligy test and other test and i don't know if it has anything to do with it or not but he came out a number 2 and i came out a number 1 the stongest there is. a born leader and all this other stuff. he is very dominant but evidently i am more so. i don't even know if there is even anything to these tests but even if they are only half true it could be that i have more energency then he can handle. i have always been a survivor and a fighter for what i believe in and i was downplaying all that and trying to act sort of submissive...i can play it all down but the energy don't lie. in fact, when i look back on it when he would feed off of me i would never feel tired. yes i would go to sleep because we usually talked late at night but when i woke up in the morning i would feel revitalized and ready to take on the world (so to speak) i'm not no vampire but it was almost as if i was feeding off of him and he is very strong!!! i guess it would take the strongest there is to be able to feed off of me and not get zapped (i just did a funny...!) i'm not even a hyperactive person just a strong one i don't loose any sleep over it. it was a wonderful experience and one i didn't want to end but but at any rate i'm ready to move on. my life is so full of good thingsi did make a dear friend and that is what is truly important..!
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