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Post by blckveil on Feb 16, 2005 23:59:54 GMT -5
I am looking for some advice or thoughts concerning an issue: Everytime my husband and I (both Sang Vamps) get involved with someone (usually a friend of sorts) as a donor, the donor suddenly wants to turn it into a sexual situation. We are in a monogamous relationship and do not wish to be engaged in sexual relations with our donors. This has become a real problem for us as it continuously happens. I understand that being fed from can be a sexual experience for many people. But it is getting to the point where we cannot find donors who are willling without their goal being sexual relations with us. We are always clear about this, and in the beginning the donors are fine with that. but it seems that once we cross the line of taking thier blood once or twice, this is all but forgotten to them. Then we have to stop "taking" from them in order to try to salvage our friendship with them. Id like to know how other people deal with this in an effective manner or if the same thing happens to others...and if it does, how do you get the life sustinence that you require without having to get involved sexually? Any replys are greatly appriciated.TEXT
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Post by AcaciaPhoenix on Feb 17, 2005 13:44:14 GMT -5
The taking of blood from another is a very sensual act, make no mistake, BUT if there is a line drawn and both parties agree to it, then you are doing the right thing by sticking to your guns although you are loosing out on the sustanance unfortunately, but what is more important the friendship or
I have donated to others and I expect nothing back during or after the event except their friendship. I may not be the norm tho LOL Good Luck!
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Post by Jesterkitty on May 31, 2005 7:06:52 GMT -5
I have heard that alot. People get all sexual when they are giving blood. Maybe they were already sexual in nature to begin with. I know of alot of people who are drawn into the erotic fantasy that the movies sometimes draws to the attention of having their blood taken. I do believe that there are some people out there who would be more reserved, because they are more reserved to begin with. But I am not going to say that it is not an intimate thing, I know I am new to this whole thing, being a donor, but intimacy is something I would not do in public, as well as share my lifes flow with anyone in public, so yes it makes it intimate, but it does not have to be sexual. I would keep looking, there is someone out there who would help you and be more reserved after. I am more of a reserved person, and am new to this so I may be wrong. But that is just what I think. Hope it helps. Let me know how it goes.
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