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Post by Arrwyn on Mar 9, 2004 1:07:30 GMT -5
Although I consider myself to be vampiric, I am not sanguine. I would like to hear from the sang vamps on our board. What do you look for in a donor? Is there some criteria other than physical appearance/age that makes one donor more attractive over another?
A second, related question is, do you think there is more than mutual admiration that "links" you to your donors? IF so, explain it.
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Post by Mairi on Mar 10, 2004 10:08:32 GMT -5
I look for those who share my interests, who are healthy both physically and mentally and whose reason's for donating are not purely to fulfill a sexual fantasy.
Mairi
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Post by DARKLOVE1978 on Apr 1, 2004 10:27:46 GMT -5
well for one being a doner is not just being a sex thing the is a lot more to it they are more or les there to help you live and from exprience i would never take a doner just for sex it gets to complated they want a relation ship and all you are is using them to (feed on ) weather it be blood or whatever so if your looking for a doner loke for the cleanest person and get to know them first to see if they are right for you and to make sure its what they really want
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Post by AlloriaDark on May 11, 2004 8:45:45 GMT -5
I find myself without a donor because of the whole sex issue. I'm looking for a donor, but so many potential people I talk to are just in it for the fetish and sexual rush. I'm sang/psy but on both accounts I have the same problem. How do you go about finding a donor that isn't interested for those reasons? New to this, I admit, and confused on a lot of levels. I know what I want from them besides the obvious. I want someone who is levelheaded and realistic in their views on our relationship and what it can and can't be. Someone who is of course free from disease. But don't we all want that? And someone I can trust and talk to. I guess I want them to have all the same qualities I look for in all my friends. Thoughtful, creative, sense of humor. I want them to be my friend. A person's physical appearance has nothing to do with it, I don't judge by that in any other aspect of my life either. Well, hope that helped in some way, or at least showed everyone how I manage to take a short post and stretch it to unneccessary lengths.
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Post by AcaciaPhoenix on May 17, 2004 13:05:19 GMT -5
ok I have a rather stupid question but if you are searching for a donor and if someone was willing to be your donor and you knew they were clean from STDs, but not necessarily completely healthy such as with Diabetes, or Hypoglycemia (sp?) would that be a hinderance to your choosing them as your donor? If so why? I mean you can't catch diabetes from partaking of someone's blood and if the amounts are small then why would this be a problem?
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Post by AlloriaDark on May 18, 2004 0:14:37 GMT -5
Mainly because if a person isn't healthy in any way donating could take a lot out of them and make their condition worse. It's as much for their saftey as ours. -Alli
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Post by AcaciaPhoenix on Nov 9, 2004 11:30:24 GMT -5
thanks for clearing that up for me Alli. But I still think that if the donor is aware of the risk and willing to help, that it shouldn't be refused. just my own two cents Acacia P.S. I have been a donor and I am afflicted with diabetes. I do let those that I have donated to know of my condition and so far it hasn't been a problem
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Post by Sanguinarius on Nov 11, 2004 5:02:19 GMT -5
AlloriaDark took the words right out of my mouth (or the keystroke right out of my fingers). Another thing I look for is their ability to be discreet about things.
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Post by AlloriaDark on Nov 12, 2004 19:07:36 GMT -5
I think that goes without saying as well. discretion is very important. I found that out back in highschool when I had my first couple of donors. They thought vampires were cool and thought it was all a game and I being young and stupid was just thrilled to have someone donate to me. Then when they realized how serious I was about being a vampire they blabbed. Not just about the feeding, they told everyone I was a lesbian (they said dyke actually, which I wasn't) and ruined my last two years at that school. Any way, I supressed my vampiric inclinations after that. I had a feeding here at there over the next few years but nothing steady. I think that's probably why I am always tired and get sick so easily. The doctors I've been to can't find anything wrong with me to explain the symptoms so that must be it.
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Post by jadey on Jun 23, 2005 21:54:35 GMT -5
I understand the unknown illness, when I stopped feeding conciously I was ill for years, then I found some old diaries, and realized what had changed... I tended to keep my diaries behind a piece of sheet rock cut out of the back of my closet wall, so nobody would ever find them, and they never did till the day I burned my past away... but I know now what I am, and am doing much better
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