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Post by Jasmine Nyte on Mar 8, 2004 21:04:11 GMT -5
I was just wondering is anyone in a "mixed" relationship? Vamp with therian or therian and ?. I am a vamp maried to a therian(wolf). It does cause a few differences, I was wondering if anyone else had had this experience?
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Post by Arrwyn on Mar 9, 2004 0:36:18 GMT -5
I am married to a fae and a determined non-believer. But, I am a multi-otherkin, myself. I have fae ancestry (someone in my mother's line was a brownie), I have a higher self form of a dragon and I am vampiric. Not to mention that my practices and belief systems fall more closely under the heading of witch than anything else. My husband will passingly acknowledge that he is fae but will not acknowledge farther than that. (In point of fact he is a mountain troll of Welsh ancestry) He was raised by a Jahovah's Witness and educated in the Baptist faith by very pedantic and "red neck" parents. So, he discredits my interest in parapsychology, philosophy and my acknowledgement of psychic gifts in myself and our daughter to the point of mockery. This makes for extremely difficult living at times as I basically have to hide much of what I am and what I believe from him. He just can't handle it. He does believe in ghosts, he talks to the ones in the Library where he is custodian. He believes some people have "gifts of the spirit" but he does not accept that I am one of those people. He expresses the opinion that anyone who considers themselves to be "faith healers", "vampires" or "therian/dragons" is less than using their full capacity of reason. He also holds judgement against people who do not have 100% monogamous legally binding relationship lifestyles. So, basically I can not share the majority of my personal philosophies with him and he holds judgements against most of my friends. Other than that, he is a loving, caring, gentle, and shy man who has been an excellent father to our daughter and an excellent provider within his financial means. He does all that he can for us even at the expense of his own comfort or needs.
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Post by Mairi on Mar 11, 2004 7:33:52 GMT -5
I'm a hybrid, both vampire and therian and my significant other is the same. We have a few rough moments just like any other relationship but in my opinion it couldn't be better.
In my opinion Vampires and Therians are the better match of Otherkin pairing up. They have the most in common, though to speak with any of them they will say the opposite. But think about it and you will see I am right.
Mairi
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paradisiac
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Post by paradisiac on Mar 17, 2004 13:58:15 GMT -5
I am a vampire and therian hybrid in a committed realtionship with a therian. I've been able to share all my experiences with him. He has agreed to be my donor as well. I have had to explain my vampirism to him. He understands and supports me.
I agree with Mairi that therians and vampires make the best matches in the otherkin community. A vampire's primal nature bleds well with that of a therian. That is also probably why I am adjusting to my therian nature so easily.
I think that with vampires and fae there may be too much of a temptation to take advantage of the fae's super high energies. But in any donor situation the donor may feel used at some point, that's why we have to be sensitive to others needs.
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Post by Vampirella on Mar 19, 2004 12:14:17 GMT -5
I think that with vampires and fae there may be too much of a temptation to take advantage of the fae's super high energies. But in any donor situation the donor may feel used at some point, that's why we have to be sensitive to others needs. ok im gonna disagree with this comment because while i awakened to vampire first im more so a fae ive awakened in the past few years and if this is true then my mate is pure vampire and hes always sleeping except at night and im super hyper all the time ask mairi and others whove met me they know im up all the time rarely sleep and chock full of energy and if what you say above is true dont you think my bf would take full advantage of my abundant energy? true hes a sang but my blood hed want all the time which he rarely partakes of anymore ,hmm maybe he cant handle it tee hee i know im getting it now as hes the admin of the board but he has to catch me first hehe but i dont totally disagree with your comment either paradisic not all vampires are lacking of energy like my bf does at times but i think its mostly his job to be honest ....and if a vampire wanted to feed they might just pick a individual with fae in them to get the much needed energy boost ,who really knows ive been around alot of vamps .weres.therians .faes .dragons etc its mostly the individual i think and the nature that possesses the inner being inside of them
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